“My friend John is so relieved about using natural pheromones. He thought he’d gotten a girl pregnant…it was a drunken one-night stand, and then she contacted him a month later and said she thought she was pregnant. It turned out she wasn’t. Learn more at https://jail6letter.wordpress.com/2015/12/19/pheromone-stages/ and http://mpommett79.hatenablog.com/entry/2015/11/07/214939 Well, I laid into John and told him he’s an idiot for not using protection. And frankly the girl was just as foolish for not insisting on it. I don’t mess around and take those risks with sexual pheromones.” Again, telling a story about a “friend” is a good way to get your message across. Some- times telling a story about a “female friend” of yours is better than talking about a male friend who uses Pherazone pheromoens: Remember in Rule 5 we talked about stocking up supplies for women so it makes it look like you have abundance in your life? This come into play here. A lot of objections that girls come up with can’t be overcome with words. ‘‘I want to come over but my cell phone battery is running low and I’m a doctor.” ‘‘I wear contacts and I don’t have a case with me.” ‘‘I’m on my period” If we have the right supplies at her house, then these objections go away. I normally get one of those cell phone chargers that has all of the connections. It’s a great investment and will protect you from the cell phone objection. Just preparing in advance makes the trip to your bedroom that much smoother. You do NOT want to grab her too hard or too soft. Here is how you measure it: Her wrist shouldn’t fall out of your hand if she doesn’t do anything, so your grip is stronger than gravity, BUT If she pulls back she should be able to easily break the grip. That’s how you measure the balance for the perfect lead. You can practice this a few times and it will make sense. That just means a ladder built from her following your leadership. The ladder gets bigger when you get her back to your place. You already know exactly how to invite her over. “You should come over and play guitar hero with me.” And she’ll just say ok and come with you. So often girls come home with me just because I assume that they are going to. That’s all it takes. When she’s at your place you need to continue the leadership role. Show her your activity or cool videos or whatever you invited her over to do. You should only do this other activity for fifteen or twenty minutes. I usually say, “Let me give you the tour. Leadership continues in the bedroom. I lead with my actions. Most guys get so excited by what’s about to happen that they don’t think. They just want to see her naked, so they start fighting and tugging her clothes off, but let’s take a moment to think about what she’s feeling: She’s with a guy she only knows a little bit for the first time. She’s in his bedroom. Now she’s standing there completely naked and totally vulnerable, and he’s completely dressed. Learn more at http://pheromones-work.weebly.com/home/october-03rd-2015